In thinking about Valentineโs Day, I came to the conclusion that most of us men do not think about it inย conjunctionย with what WE want. Why? Because we are thinking of how to please the women in our lives, if we are that lucky. Today as a representative of the big and tall men in the plus size community I am going to talk about the most romantic day from a guys perspective and what guys want on this special day.
Valentines Day & The Big and Tall Man
Guys donโt talk about Valentineโs Day โ We are programmed to love our ladies and we donโt talk about what we want to other guys
Men donโt think about Valentinesโs Day โ Honestly with the end of football season so close to Valentineโs day it just does not hit our radar
Now that we have set a few ground rules let me talk about the things that should not be purchased. Valentineโs day SHOULD NOT be lumped in with Fatherโs Day as an excuse to buy us something so we can get all sweaty from work. Just like you ladies would be upset if we bought you aย vacuumย cleaner for Motherโs day we wonโt be happy if all we ever get is another tie or tool.
Special Valentineโs Day Treats for Big and Tall men
Watches โ Most men like me are hard on watches, so that would make a perfect gift
Bracelets and necklaces โ see previous entry
Flowers โ This is a toss up, but if the man in your life is a farmer then I think this could work out
Candy โ mmmmmmmm chocolate
Cologne โ Insurrection is the manly man scent for sure
Cuff links โ This will go with the trend of guayabera shirts becoming more popular
Underwear โ For bigger men comfortable undies are the same as a well fitting bra for ladies
For the most partย becauseย of the unique design of the average man whether he fits the big and tall bill or is smaller we just donโt think about the same things ladies do when it comes to Valentineโs Day. If my wife gets me anything for Valentineโs day I will treat it like it is the most precious item in the universe and keep it for many many years beyond what she would think I would.
In conclusion, I think that for the big and tall man in your life the perfect gift is the one that you get him because he talked about it and you saw that gleam in his eye when he brings it up. I can speak from experience you will get an outpouring of love as a result that will make every penny spent well worth it.
What do you get for your Big and Tall Man for Valentineโs? Where do you shop? Do you even celebrate this day? Sound off and leave a comment we want to know!