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It’s Gettin’ Hot in Here: 10 Sexy Plus Size Valentine’s Day Gifts To Spice Up Your Night!
So, we all know that Valentine’s Day is coming up, and as sweet as this special day can be, it can also be a very *spicy* one too! I don’t know about y’all… but I’m a fan of spicing it up when the mood strikes!
So we will tap into the spicy spirit of Valentine’s day with this fun gift guide, so whether the gifts are for you or your boo, these sexy plus size Valentine’s Day gifts will definitely help you make this day special!
My favorite part of Valentine’s Day is that it is a day to completely be sexy, romantic, provocative, and curious. It’s a perfect time to consensually experiment and explore different things.
Being plus size doesn’t have to hinder your sex life at all! On the contrary! Don’t be afraid to explore your own beautiful body and find out the ways you feel most sensual and fulfilled.
Oftentimes, there is a misconception that plus size bodies are unable to do certain things that straight size bodies can…. and it’s a total myth!
There are so many fun, creative ways to do all the things you’ve ever fantasized about.
These fun gifts whether it be a self care gift to yourself, or one to enjoy with your partner, are made with larger bodies in mind!
Sexy Plus Size Valentine’s Day Gifts To Spice Up Your Night!
This set is super cute and is a great option for those new to sensory toys for the bedroom. It includes a lacy black mask, a black feather tickler, and a cute little lipstick vibrator, with a pretty pink pouch to store it all in! This would be great to toss in an overnight bag and surprise your partner with some naughty playtime in the bedroom.
This book by Elle Chase (sex educator and body acceptance advocate) is a GREAT resource! Inside, there are detailed educational graphics and step by step instructions on different positions and techniques to try in the bedroom.
It includes modifications for those with a larger belly or larger hips and some enjoyable solo positions to try out as well!
It's enjoyable to switch it up and try something new in the bedroom, which helps you feel empowered and confident.
Using a wedge pillow like this one is great for plus size bodies! Use it to help yourself or your partner stay comfortable while in different positions. Basically, it helps lift, tilt, and support your body during foreplay or sex!
OMG! How gorgeous are these candles? We are loving the plus size representation, and it would make a perfect gift for you or someone special! You can grab these in a pair (as shown) or grab them individually.
This is the perfect gift to give to anyone who needs a lil extra something to help them relax. Did you know that CBD makes an excellent aid in your sexual wellness? It helps soothe anxiety and will help you focus on you and your pleasure... as well as your partners :p
This set includes 1000mg CBD Relax/Restore Terpene Tincture, a 500mg CBD infused lotion, and a CBD infused moisturizing lip balm!
This vibrator is hands-free! It comes with a remote, which can be used up to 30 feet away, making this a perfect gift for couples!
This smells AMAZING, and soon, you will too! This candle melts down into massage oil!
This vibrator is nice and bendy! Perfect for getting to any hard to reach areas and to customize to fit your needs! The Crescendo is also a Smart toy, which means you can control it via an app.
It's super versatile and gender-inclusive as well!
While definitely not the most aesthetically pleasing thing on the list, this position enhancer is a real gift in terms of function and really delivers on its (position enhancing) promise.
It allows you or your partner to sit on the chair and not strain any muscles or put a lot of weight on your knees! This chair is also a wonderful aid for anyone with chronic pain or illnesses!
Be advised; the chair unfortunately only has a capacity of about 330 pounds.
A lil sweet and a lil sour! this fun paddle has two sides, perfect for whatever the mood calls for. one side is soft and fuzzy, and the other is a hard, flat leather surface.
I hope this list got your blood flowing, if you get my drift! 😉
But seriously, I hope this list helps to show you that plus size bodies can do anything! We can be intimate in all the ways we choose to! Our bodies don’t limit us; it’s society’s fatphobia that routinely refuses to accommodate larger bodies!
in their bondage-inspired Vega Bralette.
So, in finding tools and accessories like the wedge pillow and the position enhancer chair, we empower our bodies, and in turn, we can enjoy intimacy to the fullest. Because honestly… we deserve it!
I hope you enjoyed my gift guide! What were your favorite things from the list? Did you learn anything new? Let us know in the comments!
About the Author
Mayra Mejia
Mayra Mejia (She/Her) is a fat-positive, queer Salvadoran-American editor, writer, activist, and content creator. Passionate about fostering strong and inclusive body positive spaces, she founded PLUSH DMV, a DC-based fat-positive community.
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