We all know Valentine’s Day is coming up, and as sweet as this special day can be, it can also be a very *spicy* one, too! I don’t know about y’all… but I’m a fan of spicing it up when the mood strikes!
We’re tapping into that spicy spirit Valentine’s Day brings about with this fun gift guide. So, whether the gifts are for you or your boo, these sexy plus size Valentine’s Day gifts will definitely help you make this day special!
My favorite part of Valentine’s Day is that it is a day to completely be sexy, romantic, provocative, and curious. It’s a perfect time to consensually experiment and explore different things, and being plus size doesn’t have to hinder that at all! On the contrary! Don’t be afraid to explore your own beautiful body and find out the ways you feel most sensual and fulfilled.
Oftentimes, there is a misconception that plus size bodies are unable to do certain things that straight size bodies can…. and it’s a total myth!
There are so many fun, creative ways to do all the things you’ve ever fantasized about. These sexy plus size Valentine’s Day gifts, whether it be a self-care gift to yourself or one to enjoy with your partner, are made with larger bodies in mind!
Sexy Plus Size Valentine’s Day Gifts To Spice Up Your Night!
This set is super cute and is a great option for those new to sensory toys for the bedroom. It includes a lacy black mask, a black feather tickler, and a cute little lipstick vibrator, with a pretty pink pouch to store it all in! This would be great to toss in an overnight bag and surprise your partner with some naughty playtime in the bedroom.
This book by Elle Chase (sex educator and body acceptance advocate) is a GREAT resource! Inside, there are detailed educational graphics and step by step instructions on different positions and techniques to try in the bedroom.
It includes modifications for those with a larger belly or larger hips and some enjoyable solo positions to try out as well!
It's enjoyable to switch it up and try something new in the bedroom, which helps you feel empowered and confident.
Using a wedge pillow like this one is great for plus size bodies! Use it to help yourself or your partner stay comfortable while in different positions. Basically, it helps lift, tilt, and support your body during foreplay or sex!
"If you're a fan of our candles but long for more permanent, eye-catching art, then this planter is tailor-made for you. We've taken our beloved "Frankie" design and transformed it into a functional masterpiece."
OMG! How gorgeous are these candles? We are loving the plus size representation, and it would make a perfect gift for you or someone special! You can grab these in a pair (as shown) or grab them individually.
"This set features the perfect bundle for an erotic escape while traveling or a staycation at home. Featuring the compactly powerful Pep vibrator, travel-friendly 3 oz bottle of Jelly, 30-day pass to Dipsea erotic stories, and a tote for the babe on the go."
Lovense� Ferri: Remote control magnetic vibrating panties & underwear!
Get ready to take control (literally)! The Ferri is here to bring a whole new level of fun to your pleasure game. With its sleek, magnetic design and app control, you can vibe to your own rhythm—whether you're flying solo or enjoying some long-distance fun. It's perfect for mixing things up, and with the app in hand, you can explore endless speeds, patterns, and even get creative with custom settings. Plus, it’s discreet, powerful, and super easy to use. Who knew the future of pleasure would fit right in the palm of your hand?
Inflatable Sex Pillow PVC Flocking Travel Pillow Magic Cushion Body Support Pillow
This pillow provides soft and strong support for you and your lover. Very suitable for massages or it can be used in various stretching exercises. This pillow allows you to enjoy your lover with skill and ease!
"This beautiful whip may just become the crown jewel of your toy box. The stylish red and black design is eye-catching and so effective. Whether you want to reward your favorite ‘pet’ with gentle strokes from the whip’s supple vegan leather strips, or you want to dole out punishment with a flick of your wrist, this whip will get you both gasping with pleasure!"
"This awesome bed bondage kit blends style AND substance for full-body restraint that's both beautiful and reliable. Plus it boasts a faux fur lining so soft your sub won't ever want to be released. (Score!)In the kit, you'll find under-bed strapping, wrist and ankle cuffs, a blindfold, flogger and ball gag."
"People come in all shapes and sizes, but that doesn’t mean that everyone is comfortable enough in the skin they’re in to fully embrace their sensual selves. In Big Big Love, A Sex and Relationships Guide For People of Size (and Those Who Love Them), author Hanne Blank addresses the mechanics of larger lovers while offering valuable insight into sex of the sizeable."
I hope this list got your blood flowing — if you get my drift! But seriously, I hope this list helps to show you that plus size bodies can do anything! We can be intimate in all the ways we choose to! Our bodies don’t limit us; it’s society’s fatphobia that routinely refuses to accommodate larger bodies!
So, in finding tools and accessories like the wedge pillow and the position enhancer chair, we empower our bodies, and in turn, we can enjoy intimacy to the fullest. Because honestly… we deserve it!
Did any products from this gift guide catch your eye? Let us know which ones in the comments!
