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Our Plus Size Shopping Tips: What to Consider Before Making a Purchase

Marie Denee by Marie Denee
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Ahh online or in store shopping. Whether you are window shopping or actually shopping for an event, there is always some excitement to be had! AND, over here, we love being the enablerโ€ฆ ha ha ha! BUT, we will never leave you hanging.

As much as we love sharing the latest plus size fashion, we will also give you the best plus size shopping tips!ย 

BUT. Oftentimes, one can be a little gun shy when it comes to completing the purchase and making it real.

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You know this feeling and these thoughts: Should I buy it? How will it fit? Do I need this?ย 

All sound questions, but for me, I am quite discerning when I do make a purchase and I wanted to share with you what or how I make my decisionsโ€ฆ After all, it is all about shopping confidently, right?ย 

WHY?

  • Well, I hate having a closet full of items I will never wear
  • Hating only being able to wear it once.
  • Laughing at myself with my ambitions of a trend that I KNOW I could not make work.
  • I loathe a disorganized closet.ย 

Here are a Few Questions I Ask Myself BEFORE I Press โ€œComplete Shoppingโ€

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Would I buy if it were full price and I had the funds?ย 

Serious question here. Nothing is wrong when you are shopping on a budget. JUST because itโ€™s on sale does not mean you have to have it!

Think about itโ€ฆ When it comes to the mother of plus size shopping tips, this has to be my number one go-to.ย 

How many ways can I wear this?

If I can wear more than a few times and create a completely different mood/look? Then I make the item mine. This is a constant and consistently relative question for me.

I HATE buying something that I can only wear once, one way, or for one occasion. If this item can take me through the various moods and situationsโ€ฆ hey boo, come to momma.ย 

How many of X do I already have?

I like to take inventory of my wardrobe. If I have five similar black sheath dresses, do I NEED a new one? What makes this item so different, so special?

Do my current pieces need to be tossed or given away? These questions all apply to the one item I find myself questioningโ€ฆ

It saves me from regretting a purchase or wasting my hard earned coin!ย 

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Do I need this?ย 

A serious question! LOLโ€ฆ I have to ask myself, do I neeeeed it, or do I want it really bad. Which leads to me askโ€ฆย 

Can I walk away from this?

Like if I was told I couldnโ€™t have it or if it sold out, would I die for it? This here lets me know how much I really need this.

Do I feel that I am missing out on the deal of a lifetime? The dress that will bring all the boys to the yard? You know what I meanโ€ฆ If I keep feeling like I have to hold on to it, I may put the dress on hold, to make sure that it is a true thing.ย 

Whatโ€™s the return policy?

I HATE returning things, even more so, if I have to mail it in. So, if it the process is not EASY- chances are I will not buy from there.

Or regretfully, I will have a nice pile of clothes to give away or to donate.ย 

Am I dreaming about it?

If I am ever on the fence, I leave the store or shopping cart. If the next day I am still dreaming about it, then I know that the love is realโ€ฆ

Now, this has often resulted in a favorite piece being sold out, but if not? Come home to momma!ย 

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What plus size shopping tips/ questions do you have that help you shop confidently?

Even when I was working in retail and was working on commission, I would ask my clients these questions and send them on their way if they were on the fence and hold it for them.

It may not have been the best move, but it was a real oneโ€ฆ I wanted them to feel just as confident WITH their purchase as they looked IN their item.ย 

So what are your own set of shopping rules?ย 

We all have our own little guidelines and personal set of rules when shopping. YES, we do! Regardless of budget or personal style, there are basic guidelines and tips that are here to help you shop confidently and feel amazing!ย 

Ohhh, can we add a few more tips? I have to also add that as you are shopping, whether at a plus size boutique or indie plus size designer, make sure that you KNOW:

  • Your own measurements (including your calf size). If you cannot do it yourself, head down to your local tailor to make sure you know your truest measurements! For bras, make sure you take yourself down to your nearest Lane Bryant or Nordstrom or Lingerie boutique to get fitted, at the minimum, 1x a year!ย 
  • How the brands are sized- Junior plus size vs traditional plus size
  • Their return policy. Most designers are custom or have a limited run. BUT they are also extremely responsive and will oftentimes work with you to ensure an amazing fit and style experience.ย ย 
  • What these pieces look like on your curves, by checking out plus size bloggers who look and are shaped like you. The more you know, the more confidently you can shop!ย 

Listen, these rules save my closet from severe uselessness!

I want to know, what are your rules for shopping? Have you used any of these?

The authorโ€™s content and opinions have not been pre-reviewed, approved or endorsed by Discover.

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Marie Denee is a digital marketing strategist, media aficionado, and plus size fashion pioneer. Known as the โ€œwalking wiki of plus-size fashion,โ€ Marie has spent over two decades empowering women to celebrate their curves while reshaping the paradigm of fashion norms. In 2008, she launched The Curvy Fashionista, a leading plus-size digital media platform, in response to systemic issues within plus-size fashion, including poor merchandising, back-of-store placement, and a lack of size-inclusive design expertise. As Editor-in-Chief, Marie and her team curate plus size wardrobe and style options from top fashion brands, deliver inclusive news content, and host community-centered events virtually and in person.

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  1. Curvy CEO says:
    13 years ago

    I am trying to do a better job at asking myself these questions โ€“ especially โ€œHow many of X do I already have?โ€ Purple is my favorite color and, Iโ€™m telling you, I always have to stop myself before buying a purple piece of apparel (/aliteration) because I know that Iโ€™ve probably already got another purple version in my closet. (In fact, I just debuted a new purple wrap dress to work this week . . . I didnโ€™t consider the fact that Iโ€™m going to be wearing a very similar dress at my co-workerโ€™s wedding this weekend. Whoops!)
    I also do think itโ€™s important to ask yourself โ€œCan I walk away from this?โ€ I am still kicking myself over this suit by IGIGI. I hemmed and hawed for months and by the time I decided to make a go for it, it was sold out in my size. BOO!!!
    Great post!

    Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      13 years ago

      Thank you darlin! your walk away is my dreaming about it equivalent!!!

      Reply
  2. Rashidah Ferguson says:
    13 years ago

    Love these tips. Iโ€™m the same way with purchasing online. If the return policy/process isnโ€™t easy. I will not buy it.
    xoxo,
    http://www.beyondblackbeauty.com

    Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      13 years ago

      YES! Returns and shipping are the nail to the coffin!

      Reply
    • MilaXX says:
      12 years ago

      YES! I hate those stores that require an authorization code in order to return an item. I must truly love an item if I am buying from a retailer with that poilcy.

      Reply
  3. Izalika says:
    13 years ago

    My favorite one is the โ€œam I dreaming about it?โ€ tipโ€ฆthat is my number one thing I look for, because a lot of things seem amazing on first sight. If I dream about, then acquire something, then I know Iโ€™ll love it. Iโ€™ll also add โ€œam I still in love with it when I try it on again another day.โ€ Trust, it works!

    Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      13 years ago

      I am right >>here<< with you on thatโ€ฆ

      Reply
  4. MilaXX says:
    12 years ago

    I attend a formal or semi formal event at least once a year, sometimes more. I am always on the lookout for a sale so I am not scrambling to put a look together. I look at after holiday sale for this.
    I like to keep certain baisc like easy flow dresses in the summer and casual slacks in the winter. These items are things I always look for on sale.
    Things I use multiples of I buy in bulk, like black tights for the winter. I keep trendy/faddish things to a minimum.

    Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      12 years ago

      I love the multiples idea!

      Reply
  5. lissakarabear says:
    11 years ago

    i go through hunting periods where iโ€™m looking for my unicornโ€ฆie denim jacket or extra wide calf cowboy boots.Totally a shopaholic, i just moved and had to get a second bedroom as a closet. I find the walking away thing very helpful. Impulse or trend buying 96% regret, iโ€™ve also found thinking of things in hours of work vs dollars gives me perspectiveโ€ฆWould i really work 10 hours for that dress i have 3 others like? prob not bc i do like my free timeโ€ฆWorking on my willpower *sigh*

    Reply
  6. Sebs K. Moe says:
    11 years ago

    In Canada, itโ€™s a federal law that a customer is allowed 30 days to return/exchange. All the businessโ€™s policies and whatnot are just distractions. In a court of law, they would not stand. 8D

    Reply

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