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Our Plus Size Shopping Tips: What to Consider Before Making a Purchase

Marie Denee
Last updated: 03/18/2020
By Marie Denee 7 Min Read
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WHY?Would I buy if it were full price and I had the funds? How many ways can I wear this?How many of X do I already have?Do I need this? Can I walk away from this?What’s the return policy?Am I dreaming about it?What plus size shopping tips/ questions do you have that help you shop confidently?So what are your own set of shopping rules? 

Ahh online or in store shopping. Whether you are window shopping or actually shopping for an event, there is always some excitement to be had! AND, over here, we love being the enabler… ha ha ha! BUT, we will never leave you hanging.

As much as we love sharing the latest plus size fashion, we will also give you the best plus size shopping tips! 

BUT. Oftentimes, one can be a little gun shy when it comes to completing the purchase and making it real.

You know this feeling and these thoughts: Should I buy it? How will it fit? Do I need this? 

All sound questions, but for me, I am quite discerning when I do make a purchase and I wanted to share with you what or how I make my decisions… After all, it is all about shopping confidently, right? 

WHY?

  • Well, I hate having a closet full of items I will never wear
  • Hating only being able to wear it once.
  • Laughing at myself with my ambitions of a trend that I KNOW I could not make work.
  • I loathe a disorganized closet. 

Here are a Few Questions I Ask Myself BEFORE I Press “Complete Shopping”

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Would I buy if it were full price and I had the funds? 

Serious question here. Nothing is wrong when you are shopping on a budget. JUST because it’s on sale does not mean you have to have it!

Think about it… When it comes to the mother of plus size shopping tips, this has to be my number one go-to. 

How many ways can I wear this?

If I can wear more than a few times and create a completely different mood/look? Then I make the item mine. This is a constant and consistently relative question for me.

I HATE buying something that I can only wear once, one way, or for one occasion. If this item can take me through the various moods and situations… hey boo, come to momma. 

How many of X do I already have?

I like to take inventory of my wardrobe. If I have five similar black sheath dresses, do I NEED a new one? What makes this item so different, so special?

Do my current pieces need to be tossed or given away? These questions all apply to the one item I find myself questioning…

It saves me from regretting a purchase or wasting my hard earned coin! 

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Do I need this? 

A serious question! LOL… I have to ask myself, do I neeeeed it, or do I want it really bad. Which leads to me ask… 

Can I walk away from this?

Like if I was told I couldn’t have it or if it sold out, would I die for it? This here lets me know how much I really need this.

Do I feel that I am missing out on the deal of a lifetime? The dress that will bring all the boys to the yard? You know what I mean… If I keep feeling like I have to hold on to it, I may put the dress on hold, to make sure that it is a true thing. 

What’s the return policy?

I HATE returning things, even more so, if I have to mail it in. So, if it the process is not EASY- chances are I will not buy from there.

Or regretfully, I will have a nice pile of clothes to give away or to donate. 

Am I dreaming about it?

If I am ever on the fence, I leave the store or shopping cart. If the next day I am still dreaming about it, then I know that the love is real…

Now, this has often resulted in a favorite piece being sold out, but if not? Come home to momma! 

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What plus size shopping tips/ questions do you have that help you shop confidently?

Even when I was working in retail and was working on commission, I would ask my clients these questions and send them on their way if they were on the fence and hold it for them.

It may not have been the best move, but it was a real one… I wanted them to feel just as confident WITH their purchase as they looked IN their item. 

So what are your own set of shopping rules? 

We all have our own little guidelines and personal set of rules when shopping. YES, we do! Regardless of budget or personal style, there are basic guidelines and tips that are here to help you shop confidently and feel amazing! 

Ohhh, can we add a few more tips? I have to also add that as you are shopping, whether at a plus size boutique or indie plus size designer, make sure that you KNOW:

  • Your own measurements (including your calf size). If you cannot do it yourself, head down to your local tailor to make sure you know your truest measurements! For bras, make sure you take yourself down to your nearest Lane Bryant or Nordstrom or Lingerie boutique to get fitted, at the minimum, 1x a year! 
  • How the brands are sized- Junior plus size vs traditional plus size
  • Their return policy. Most designers are custom or have a limited run. BUT they are also extremely responsive and will oftentimes work with you to ensure an amazing fit and style experience.  
  • What these pieces look like on your curves, by checking out plus size bloggers who look and are shaped like you. The more you know, the more confidently you can shop! 

Listen, these rules save my closet from severe uselessness!

I want to know, what are your rules for shopping? Have you used any of these?

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Marie Denee is the founder and Editor in Chief of the digital plus size media platform, The Curvy Fashionista. With over 11 years of prior retail and management experience and her MBA in Marketing, Marie often is sought after for her industry knowledge, marketing expertise, and the ins and outs of plus size fashion.
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  • Curvy CEO says:
    August 31, 2012 at 7:45 pm

    I am trying to do a better job at asking myself these questions – especially “How many of X do I already have?” Purple is my favorite color and, I’m telling you, I always have to stop myself before buying a purple piece of apparel (/aliteration) because I know that I’ve probably already got another purple version in my closet. (In fact, I just debuted a new purple wrap dress to work this week . . . I didn’t consider the fact that I’m going to be wearing a very similar dress at my co-worker’s wedding this weekend. Whoops!)
    I also do think it’s important to ask yourself “Can I walk away from this?” I am still kicking myself over this suit by IGIGI. I hemmed and hawed for months and by the time I decided to make a go for it, it was sold out in my size. BOO!!!
    Great post!

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    • Marie Denee says:
      November 3, 2012 at 4:18 pm

      Thank you darlin! your walk away is my dreaming about it equivalent!!!

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  • Rashidah Ferguson says:
    September 4, 2012 at 7:44 am

    Love these tips. I’m the same way with purchasing online. If the return policy/process isn’t easy. I will not buy it.
    xoxo,
    http://www.beyondblackbeauty.com

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    • Marie Denee says:
      November 3, 2012 at 4:18 pm

      YES! Returns and shipping are the nail to the coffin!

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    • MilaXX says:
      June 18, 2013 at 7:06 am

      YES! I hate those stores that require an authorization code in order to return an item. I must truly love an item if I am buying from a retailer with that poilcy.

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  • Izalika says:
    September 4, 2012 at 7:16 pm

    My favorite one is the “am I dreaming about it?” tip…that is my number one thing I look for, because a lot of things seem amazing on first sight. If I dream about, then acquire something, then I know I’ll love it. I’ll also add “am I still in love with it when I try it on again another day.” Trust, it works!

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    • Marie Denee says:
      November 3, 2012 at 4:17 pm

      I am right >>here<< with you on that…

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  • MilaXX says:
    June 18, 2013 at 7:05 am

    I attend a formal or semi formal event at least once a year, sometimes more. I am always on the lookout for a sale so I am not scrambling to put a look together. I look at after holiday sale for this.
    I like to keep certain baisc like easy flow dresses in the summer and casual slacks in the winter. These items are things I always look for on sale.
    Things I use multiples of I buy in bulk, like black tights for the winter. I keep trendy/faddish things to a minimum.

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    • Marie Denee says:
      September 1, 2013 at 5:50 pm

      I love the multiples idea!

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  • lissakarabear says:
    January 8, 2014 at 10:31 pm

    i go through hunting periods where i’m looking for my unicorn…ie denim jacket or extra wide calf cowboy boots.Totally a shopaholic, i just moved and had to get a second bedroom as a closet. I find the walking away thing very helpful. Impulse or trend buying 96% regret, i’ve also found thinking of things in hours of work vs dollars gives me perspective…Would i really work 10 hours for that dress i have 3 others like? prob not bc i do like my free time…Working on my willpower *sigh*

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  • Sebs K. Moe says:
    January 8, 2014 at 11:46 pm

    In Canada, it’s a federal law that a customer is allowed 30 days to return/exchange. All the business’s policies and whatnot are just distractions. In a court of law, they would not stand. 8D

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