When it comes to pleasure, plus size bodies deserve products that truly cater to our needs. But let’s be real—most romance toys aren’t designed with us in mind. That’s where Chrystal Bougon, founder of the now-closed Curvy Girl Lingerie and current owner of BlissConnection.com, comes in. As an expert in body-inclusive pleasure since 2003, she’s passionate about helping plus size people find plus size romance toys that fit, feel good, and most importantly—deliver!
“I’ve been in this business for over two decades, and what I’ve learned is that not all pleasure products are created equal for plus size folks,” says Chrystal. “Some of us have shorter arms, fuller bellies, or more cushion, and that means we need toys that actually reach where we want them to.”
With Valentine’s Day around the corner, whether you’re celebrating solo or with a partner, here are Chrystal’s top picks for pleasure products that work beautifully for plus size bodies.
5 Plus Size Romance Toys Perfect for Our Bodies
1. Womanizer Premium 2: The Game-Changer
“Let’s start with the star of the show—the Womanizer Premium 2. This toy is a total game-changer,” Chrystal raves. “It’s pricey at around $195, but worth every penny. The PleasureAir technology creates suction and pressure waves that mimic oral sex, leading to quick and often multiple orgasms.”
Unlike traditional vibrators, the Womanizer Plus doesn’t rely on direct vibration but instead uses air pulses for stimulation. And the best part? “It’s 8.25 inches long, so it makes reaching your clitoris a breeze, even if you have a fuller tummy or shorter arms,” she adds. “Plus, the controls are perfectly placed for easy speed adjustments. If you want to be the best friend ever, grab one of these for your plus size bestie!”
2. Magic Wand: The OG Powerhouse
“If you want POWER, the Magic Wand is your best bet,” says Chrystal. “It’s legendary for a reason! This plug-in vibrator delivers intense rumbles that make it a must-have.”
Because it plugs into the wall, the Magic Wand is one of the strongest vibrators on the market. “It has a 12-inch handle, which makes it great for plus size users who need a little extra reach,” she explains. “Just a heads-up—low speed is already super intense, so you may not even need the higher settings.”
3. Plus Size Doggy Style Strap: Better Positioning, More Pleasure
“Now, this one always gets people talking—the Plus Size Doggy Style Strap by Sportsheets,” Chrystal laughs. “Some folks ask, ‘Why would I need that? I have big hips!’ And I say, ‘Crygasm.’”
Designed for comfort and control, this padded strap wraps around the waist and provides handles for a partner to hold onto. “It’s perfect for plus size bodies because it offers extra leverage, deeper penetration, and takes pressure off your partner’s back,” she explains. “It works for sizes up to a 30, and trust me, once you try it, you won’t look back.”
Check out the Plus Size Doggy Style Strap
4. Infamous “Tracy’s Dog”: Simple, Effective, and Affordable
For those looking for an affordable, reliable toy, Chrystal recommends the infamous Tracy’s Dog. Strange name, but made infamous from their Amazon reviews. It’s basically suction and vibration with a handle, and at just $55, it’s a no-brainer,” she says. “It’s waterproof, lasts forever, made from silicone, and has a flexible handle that makes it easier to use for plus size bodies.”\
“I keep mine in my shower caddy,” she admits. “It’s simple, effective, and perfect for people who want a straightforward toy that gets the job done.”
Dual suction and vibration toy (Tracy’s Dog)
5. Liberator Jaz Positions Pillow: Comfort & Creativity
Last but certainly not least is the Liberator Jaz Positions Pillow. “Liberator makes high-quality, body-friendly products, and this pillow is a must-have,” Chrystal says. “It helps with oral, doggy style, and so many other positions. Plus, it holds up to all body sizes.”
Made from high-density foam, the pillow provides support and elevation to enhance pleasure. “I’m a size 26/28, and this pillow holds up to me in any position imaginable,” she adds. “And bonus—it has a removable, washable cover, so cleanup is a breeze.”
Because Plus Size Bodies Deserve All the Pleasure
“I never want plus size folks to miss out on pleasure just because a product wasn’t designed with us in mind,” Chrystal emphasizes. “Our bodies are capable of so much pleasure, and we deserve to experience every bit of it.”
For more plus size-friendly pleasure products, check out BlissConnection.com!
Got questions about finding the right toy for your body? Chrystal is always happy to help. “Slide into my DMs anytime—I love helping plus size people find products that truly work for them.” No matter your needs, preferences, or experience level, there’s a pleasure product out there that’s perfect for you. Embrace your body, explore your desires, and never settle for anything less than pure pleasure!
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