There’s something about music festivals that feels electric—the energy, the music, the freedom to just be. I consider myself a festival girlie through and through, and my love affair with them started in 2019. Since then, festivals have become my annual ritual, due to some amazing music festival must-haves. But it wasn’t just the music that made me fall in love—one unforgettable weekend in 2021, under the starry Las Vegas sky, I found love in a completely unexpected way.
It was an R&B and hip-hop festival, and some of my favorite artists were performing. I was going, and my best friend (and crush) wanted to go as well, so of course, I invited him with me. Three days of dancing, sweating, and vibing later, the desert night turned cold. He wrapped his arms around me, and just like that—our friendship became something more. We’ve been together ever since.
Now, if you’re a plus size girlie, you already know that forgetting a music festival must-haves isn’t just inconvenient—it can be a total game-changer. Over the years, I’ve perfected my must-pack list, ensuring my festival experience is always top-tier. Trust me, these are the music festival must-haves you don’t want to leave behind.
Phaith Montoya’s Music Festival Must-Haves
For all my girlies who love a sheer top or a skimpy festival ‘fit, these are a lifesaver. They smooth everything out, keep the girls secure, and stay seamless under any outfit. Whether it’s a crochet bralette, a mesh bodysuit, or even a daring bikini top, these are a must. And trust me, you can never have too many.
Long days, endless walking, and dancing under the sun mean one thing: sweat. Stick deodorant isn’t just for freshening up—it’s the best anti-chafing trick in the book. Forget expensive anti-chafing balms; any stick deodorant will do. Swipe it between your thighs, under your arms, anywhere you need a little extra glide, and thank me later.
You’ve seen those handheld fans, but let me put you on to my personal fave—the camera fan. It’s tiny, powerful, and attaches right to your phone, keeping you cool while you snap the perfect festival selfies. Bonus: It keeps your makeup from melting, which is a lifesaver for those long festival days.
No matter how well you pack, there’s always that one thing you wish you had. That’s why I say—bring it all. A bra extender? Pack it. A statement chain belt? Absolutely. An extra pair of sunnies? You won’t regret it. Festival fashion is about having options, and once you're there, finding the perfect finishing touch isn't as easy as a quick shopping trip.
The biggest rookie mistake? Thinking the desert stays warm at night. I learned this the hard way when I forgot my jacket in Vegas—but hey, it led to the best moment of my life, so no regrets. That said, I now always bring a lightweight but warm jacket. It’s cozy, stylish, and just in case you want a reason for a cuddle, you can always "accidentally" forget it in your room.
I know, I know—sneakers are the obvious choice. But hear me out: knee-high boots (especially ones designed for wide calves) are a game-changer. They protect your feet from dirt, keep you comfy, and add a statement to any look. Please don’t make the mistake of wearing open-toe sandals unless you enjoy pain and regret by hour three.
The final touch? The perfect lip gloss. My ride-or-die is the Laneige Lip Glowy Balm—hydrating, non-sticky, and just glossy enough to give that effortless, kissable finish. Because whether you’re kissing your longtime crush under the festival lights or just living your best life, a little gloss goes a long way.
Music festivals aren’t just about the music; they’re about the memories, the friendships, the fashion, and sometimes, the unexpected love stories. Whether you’re heading to Coachella, Stagecoach, or any other festival this season, take my advice—pack smart, stay fabulous, and always leave a little room for magic.
About Phaith Montoya
Phaith Montoya is a NAMI Celebrity Ambassador, and has a fashion, beauty, and mental health platform, carrying a very powerful message for change and inclusivity to 4 million combined social media followers. She is a refreshing beacon of light, striving for a more inclusive world giving plus sized women a larger platform to thrive and the attain representation that has long been lacking. You can find Phaith on TikTok, Instagram and Snapchat, and YouTube!
