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Poised, Polished, Professional and Plus Size: Plus Size Wear to Work Tips

Marie Denee by Marie Denee
13 years ago
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Before we begin, I must stress:

Dressing professionally does not equal dressing dowdy.

I have quite a few questions asked to me about what to wear to the office, being professional, what constitutes โ€œwear to workโ€ clothes and how to still be stylish while adhering to whatever dress code you have โ€“ all while being plus sized.

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Please pardon the long post today! Itโ€™s chock full of info! Besides, before I delve into the designers and retailers, I feel itโ€™s best to lay the foundationsโ€ฆ yes?
SO, to answer this question, I have decided to break this down into a mini series of tips and tricks (it is a vast and varied topic!) โ€“ as well as address certain looks/occasions and how/where to get them! Before we get into what to have in your closet, let us chat a bit about a few basics that cross a variety of industries AND situations that could affect just what your career and wardrobe!

Why the Dress codes?

work wear from Eloquii blouse
Photo courtesy of Eloquii

It can be a bit frustrating and/or daunting, but understand that these guidelines were put in place not to โ€œhinder youโ€ but to create an environment to project an image to clients, potential clients, the brandโ€™s image, and not to distract from your companyโ€™s business atmosphere!

But then where does that leave you? I too, had issues when I moved into executive roles โ€“ having to dress more โ€œprofessionalโ€ without losing my identity or style aesthetic. Trust me, it can be achieved!

Poised, Polished, and Professional

Some of you reading may ask why does this matter, why am I addressing this? Well, we live in quite a visual society and oftentimes how you dress can affect your job one way or another! In the office more so if you are looking to advance! Donโ€™t believe me? In a CareerBuilder.com survey, 41 percent of employers said that people who dress better or more professionally tend to be promoted more often than others in their organization!

In addition to this, according to the survey, dressing professionally is more important in some industries than it is in others. Financial services is one industry that places the most emphasis on professional work attire. Fifty-five percent of workers in this sector say well-dressed employees are more likely to be promoted than others.

An additional 51 percent of sales representatives say the same thing about the likelihood of promotions in their industry. On the opposite end of the spectrum, only 33 percent of manufacturing employers and 37 percent of IT employers say that professional attire influences whether or not an employee gets promoted.

I must add this: While I NOW work at home, I have been a manager, lead, supervisor for a variety of places, whose dress codes can quickly vary within the same company dependant on your role you have! I hated having to send people home from work because they looked like they were going to the club, or I could almost see their goodsโ€ฆ YES. Their goodies. I keep a few professional pieces in my closet for those special meetings and events- you just never know!

Tips for Being Plus Sized in the Workplace

The Business, Business Casual, or the Creative workplaces (I will go into more detail with this at a later time) all have some guideline or another. These are generalities, but general practices for most workplaces! But below are a few tips when in the workplace that will help you navigate through those waters:

Tops:

work wear from Eloquii top
Photo courtesy of Eloquii
  • Being blessed up top as a plus sized woman can be a tricky thing. Even a conservative cut can still draw attention to your bosom, but there a few tips here:
  • Limit the amount of cleavage you show. If your top doubles as a top you would wear out with the girls, this may not be the right top for you
  • If you raise your arms and your midriff shows, either rock a camisole, change the size, or opt for another blouse
  • If your blouse gapes at the center (from the button ups), if you find yourself tugging at it even before you leave the home, it would be best to change your blouse so it does not distract you or others

Pants:

work wear from Eloquii pants
Photo courtesy of Eloquii
  • Such a tricky thing here. But in order to keep it professional, fit is key here!
  • If your pants double as leggings, they are too tight for the workplace. Your business or professional slacks should graze your curves, not expose them.
  • Make sure that your pants are pressed, ironed, or whichever you like to call it, youโ€™d be surprised how much a polished look changes your mood!
  • NO VPL. You know, visible panty line!

Skirts and Dresses:

work wear from Eloquii dress
Photo courtesy of Eloquii
  • I smile as I write this, because my days working for a major department store, this was always a place where us women pushed the boundaries!
  • Length, your dress or skirt should always be at least to your fingertips. If you take a wide or long step, I should not be able to see your motherโ€™s name, address, and phone numberโ€ฆ
  • Your dress or skirt should not be so tight that walking from one side of the room to another turns your skirt into a top (YES, I have seen this!)

Shoes:

work wear from Eloquii shoes
Photo courtesy of Eloquii

Depending on where you work, most places have opted for a closed toe shoe policy. And some even drill down that if your shoes are flat, they cannot be sling backs (workplace injuries of the past I am sure). Whichever you choose, your shoes should be comfortable! (or at least keep a great catch all comfy pair at your desk) like I did!

Hosiery:

work wear from Eloquii hosiery
Photo courtesy of Eloquii

This is always a tricky one that this Cali girl had to get used toโ€ฆ Growing up in church, I grew a slight disdain for wearing tights and hosiery. Also in 90+ heat, who in the hell wears tights? BUT, in the professional workplace, especially while I was an executive, I was always encouraged to wear tights and never go โ€œbare-leggedโ€ as my old supervisor used to say. In this place, consult and observe your colleagues to see how they approach this. Thank god for innovations in hosiery โ€“ you can rock tights that are fun AND appropriate!

If you are on the fence about your look, change it! But for more clarity, ask your supervisor or your Human Resources staff.
What Items do you find the hardest to find when dressing for the workplace?ย 

**All Items shown here are from Eloquii!**

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Marie Denee

Marie Denee is a digital marketing strategist, media aficionado, and plus size fashion pioneer. Known as the โ€œwalking wiki of plus-size fashion,โ€ Marie has spent over two decades empowering women to celebrate their curves while reshaping the paradigm of fashion norms. In 2008, she launched The Curvy Fashionista, a leading plus-size digital media platform, in response to systemic issues within plus-size fashion, including poor merchandising, back-of-store placement, and a lack of size-inclusive design expertise. As Editor-in-Chief, Marie and her team curate plus size wardrobe and style options from top fashion brands, deliver inclusive news content, and host community-centered events virtually and in person.

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Comments 24

  1. Bootzey says:
    13 years ago

    I hate hose. But to keep professional, I wear longer hemlines and tall boots.

    Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      13 years ago

      I like how you think!ย 

      Reply
  2. MizLiz form BBWGeneration says:
    13 years ago

    Great advice.ย  Can I ask if you would do a review of the PERFECT shoe for these outfits?ย  Iโ€™m a tiny little 5โ€™0 and if I donโ€™t wear heels it will look AWEFUL.
    Finding heels that fit well with minimal pain at an AFFORDABLE price has been a task!
    My feet are as round as I am and wear between 6 1/2W to a 7 1/2W or 8 Regular.
    =/

    Reply
    • Shawna White Kraft says:
      13 years ago

      A rounded toe 3 inch heel (or less) Mary Jane would be perfect for most professional outfits.ย My co worker and I are shoe fetishists and thats what we rock most of the time. Something like this: ย http://www.zappos.com/gabriella-rocha-dancy-blackย or even a little more pizazz in a patent leather like this: http://www.zappos.com/gabriella-rocha-athens-black-synthetic-patent

      Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      13 years ago

      I will i will! Promise!!!ย 

      Reply
  3. Shawna White Kraft says:
    13 years ago

    I love this. Having NOT been a plus size girl before kids and now a plus size girl after kids as well as being thrown back into the professional workforce I had to find pieces really quick that would double as โ€œProfessionalโ€ and comfortable. Marie, maybe on a follow-up post you could expand upon wardrobe essentials for the workplace. Like 1 pencil skirt (knee length) and 2 pairs of black slacks and 3 Button up collard shirts in fun but minimal colors. So on and so forth to get a basic 2 weeks worth of outfits to start off with. ๐Ÿ™‚ Lots of love!

    Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      13 years ago

      Shawna!!! We go waaaayyyyy back love! LOL I know exactly what you mean! I will be doing more on this series stay tuned!

      Reply
  4. Glig22 says:
    13 years ago

    Tops are impossible! I donโ€™t want to look i squeezed in the top, but i donโ€™t want it to big. I can never find pieces that fit me right.

    Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      13 years ago

      Iย haveย a fewย favoriteย places in my follow up piece for your reference! Take a peek: http://thecurvy.me/xnKg3A ย ย  ย  ย 

      Reply
  5. Jessiree says:
    13 years ago

    Iโ€™m young (24) and curvy honey, like a chello (lol). My manager (whom I admire) asks that I dress more professional. The office is business casual. Like a mini her, but I donโ€™t want to look matronly. I still want to be stylish, young, AND professional. Where should I start? She also suggested that I incorporate strong support garments into my wardrobe (in hopes of controlling my backside jiggle and keep some of the men from bothering meย unnecessarily.) ย Help!

    Reply
    • Mrs. Jaye says:
      13 years ago

      Spanx has a less expensive line of support garments that Iโ€™m totally falling in love with! Theyโ€™re called Assets. For professional wear, Eloquii is a newbie, but awesome line!

      Reply
      • Jessiree says:
        13 years ago

        Thanks! Iโ€™ll give it a look

        Reply
      • Marie Denee says:
        13 years ago

        Thank you Miss Jaye! You rock for sharingย 

        Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      13 years ago

      Hiย @a13dbfa1266e68714b7e0cf5a98aac26:disqusย I have recapped the essentials you should start with for your professional closet! Please take a look here:ย http://thecurvy.me/xnKg3A ย  Afterwards, if there is anything else you are looking for, please do not hesitate to reach out!ย 

      Reply
  6. Angela Bright says:
    13 years ago

    Loved this article! I actually love dressing professionally because I had to work very hard to get where I am. Every time I put on a professional outfit Iโ€™m reminded I no longer work retail. Eloquii has completely changed my whole wardrobe. I really love their outfits and ideas.

    Iโ€™ll definitely refer to this.

    Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      13 years ago

      Yeahhh,ย @twitter-5835692:disqusย did you find the latest post about the essentials?ย http://thecurvy.me/xnKg3A ย ย 

      Reply
  7. Stephanie says:
    13 years ago

    Pantyhose tends to be a one-use item โ€“ they rip so easily! I wear Just my Size โ€“ any tips on other brands??

    Reply
    • Marie Denee says:
      13 years ago

      Ooohhh I am working on this! Say tuned!!!ย 

      Reply
  8. Kristin McGuire says:
    13 years ago

    I find I have problems in the cleavage department. It is not my intent to have the girls on disply or peekeing, but it seems most tops are scoop neck or square or vโ€ฆAnd with size K boobs, nothing hides them besides a mock turtle neck I supposeโ€ฆ

    Reply
  9. Nouman Uz Zama says:
    12 years ago

    I agree with you dressing professionally is does not equal to wear normal outfit. You have to look good at work in your work wear outfit. These tips are really helpful for every working women. Thank you.

    Reply
  10. Adri says:
    11 years ago

    Like I am so frustrated. I want to be cute and fashionable in the office but it is sooooooo painfully expensive. Any tips you guys??

    Reply
  11. Rose says:
    7 years ago

    Any suggestions on slacks or office pants and blazers for an apple shaped, plus sized woman? I have struggled for so long trying to find the right clothing! I often have to settle for clothing items that are too loose in one place and tight in another because otherwise I wonโ€™t have anything to wear *sigh*

    Reply
  12. Lisa Kerr says:
    7 years ago

    Thanks , Great Post.

    Reply
  13. Ivy Baker says:
    5 years ago

    I liked that you explained that it would be smart to consider if you will be safe in the items you are wearing at work. It is good to know that you will want to consider your shoes and if they will be a tripping hazard as well as comfortable. If I was going to be on my feet all day I would want them to support my arches and my back.

    Reply

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