Hey, curvy besties! There’s nothing like a good “seggsy” session with your partner. And after a few rounds, I don’t feel bad for missing my cardio day at the gym. And as Cameron Alexander from Her Campus eloquently shares, “I hate to break it to you, but fat people have sex too. Fat people also want to look and feel sexy.” Amen, Cameron, Amen.
Now, let’s talk about the best sex positions for plus size women. This topic is a fun one, especially since there used to be a stigma about what plus size women could actually do in the bedroom. Unfortunately, there still is, in some instances, as if your stomach stops you from being folded like a pretzel. Remember, ladies, your tummy stops NOTHING!
Exploring Different Sex Positions
Finding the best sex positions for plus size women is all about what feels good and just having fun. Trust me, you don’t want to think too hard! Don’t be afraid to explore different or new sex positions. Add in sex toys and your favorite lingerie to spice things up even more. Today, we are covering the basics. They’re reliable and achievable, and honestly, they are still the best sex positions for plus size women.
1. Doggy Style
Starting strong, we have old faithful! You can never go wrong with doggy style. It’s perfect for deep penetration and gives your partner easy access to your clit. Plus, it takes the pressure off your knees and back. Throw some pillows under your chest or rest your upper body on the bed. You’ll be in pleasure town in no time!
2. The Butter Churner
This position might sound wild, but trust us, it’s worth it. Lie on your back with your legs up and bent over your partner’s shoulders. Your partner kneels and supports your lower back and hips. The butter churner allows for deep penetration and puts your partner in the driver’s seat. Use some pillows for support, and get ready to churn out some serious pleasure.
3. Spooning
Spoon me, baby! I know some people view this as lazy, and technically, you can be, but this position feels so intimate. Spooning is all about lazy, cuddly lovemaking. You and your partner will lie on your sides, and your partner will slide in from behind. It’s perfect for a relaxed, intimate vibe and super gentle on your body. Morning sex, anyone?
4. Cowgirl
Yeehaw! This next position is for the girlies who love to be in control, but it will require more stamina. The Cowgirl allows you to set the pace and angle. Kneel or squat over your partner and move in a good way. Want to mix it up? Pop a pillow under their hips. You’ll hit the perfect angle, and trust me, they won’t complain. And please, ladies, do not worry about “being too big to be on top” or hurting your partner; they knew what they signed up for when they asked you to get on top.
5. Flatiron
For a deep, intimate connection, try the flatiron position. Lie face down on the bed with your legs straight and together, hips slightly raised. Your partner enters from behind, lying on top of you. This position allows for deep penetration while keeping things slow and sensual. Plus, it’s easy on your back and knees, making it super comfy.
6. The Pretzel
The pretzel is perfect for when you want something a little different. Lie on your side with your bottom leg straight and your top leg bent at the knee. Your partner kneels and straddles your bottom leg while holding your top leg. This position allows for deep penetration and easy access to your clit, combining the best of both worlds. It’s intimate, comfortable, and a great way to mix things up.
There you have it, besties—the best sex positions for plus size women that are all about maximizing pleasure and comfort. The key is experimenting, communicating, and, most importantly, having fun. Your body is beautiful, and you deserve to enjoy every second of your intimate moments. So flip it, reverse it, dip it, whatever you and your partner choose!
