So, my mind has been thinking and wondering around the ideal of what it’s like being plus size in the media- especially after Jennifer Hudson’s insights of “Not Knowing She Was Plus Sized” in September’s Self Magazine. [Inserts Eye Roll here]
Anyways, this had me thinking, especially after Boris Kojoe’s Twitter comments (bless his heart), about the plus sized celebrities who have embraced their curves, weight loss or not, have been open, positive, and confident in their curves- the Women who thumb their noses to Hollywood’s ideal and hold their head up high and EVEN capitalize on their curves AND still manage to live a full life (Go Figure!).
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Those women whose moxie, sass, confidence, zaniness, and style have continually bucked the ideals and norms, who have lived life for THEM, who have celebrated the art and work they do and who are non apologetic about their curves, weight, or looks.
I want to interview them.
Being that Curvy.Confident.Chic. is the mission of this blog, I’d love to delve into the minds of these plus size women who stay on the red carpet, big screen, or in my Spotify playlist. SO without further ado. I share with you these 8 plus size celebrities whom I’d die for a chance to interview and get into of their minds:
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1. Adele
“I like having my hair and face done, but I’m not going to lose weight because someone tells me to. I make music to be a musician not to be on the cover of Playboy.”
Asides from the fact that her musicality stirs up something new in my soul, I love her confidence, sass, and shoot-from-the-hip honesty.
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Adele’s style is also something to note. I do not think I have EVER seen her NOT looking fashionable.
On the covers of Rolling Stone, Out, Elle, Q, Glamour and Billboard- this sultry, sexy, sassy, and amazingly talented singer is one who I’d love to have a drink with and just chat about life and love with. Oh and fashion too.
2. Queen Latifah
I feel like I’ve set the example for loving your body no matter what size it is, but I also can set the example for being healthy as well. I’m trying to just be an inspiration to people who just want to get healthy. It’s not about losing 100 lbs., because that’s not who I want to be. But, it is about being really healthy.
(source)
All hail the Queen.
This red carpet plus size rapper, singer, actress, now designer’s style is one definitely for the books! While I’d love to play dress up in her closet (I am still dreaming about that white jumpsuit she wore) and I sooo miss the Curvation line (remember that?)
I ‘d want to delve into her experiences in the media and the roles she has taken as an actress and how or if her weight played a role in it. Also, knowing she used to work with Susan Moses, I want to know has finding looks for her gotten easier or harder?
3. Beth Ditto
“It’s kind of like a drug… it’s a performance. It’s funny how something so normal and mundane that you see every day – your body – can be controversial. The shock value is intense. It’s like carrying an art piece around with you all the time. […] It’s really about making an art piece out of what you’ve been handed..(BlackBook)
Breaking stereotypes, crushing stigmas, and challenging the status quo- this is the fierce and edgy Beth Ditto.
I love her outspoken, in your face, cross the line, speak her mind, and have no shame having moxie that Beth Ditto has. I feel that after one conversation, we’d famously go shopping, and chat over drinks what her next collection would look like!
4. Mo’Nique
“Let’s be healthy big people.” (Jet Magazine)
Miss Mo’Nique is a comedienne-turned-actress-now-tv-show-host who has always intrigued me.
Following her through her career makes me feel as if I know her, yet I have always wanted to know more. Media and its spotlight can do weird things to you- yet she has been one not to conform- even if it cost her.
I would sip some wine with Mo’Nique, talk about the challenges, struggles, and the no-holds-barred reality of being plus size in Hollywood.
5. Amber Riley
“I love my breasts, my face, my butt,” but most importantly, “I love myself.”(People)
First- I love her. Her style, playfulness (although I wish she replied to a tweet), Miss Amber Riley has been slaying it on the red carpets! I would love to know her thoughts about media and her reception, and if her weight for her, has ever been an issue.
I love her confidence in bold colors; darling hemlines- she makes me smile!
I’d dig into her mind about fashion and her love for it (from what I’ve deduced) and then, yes… we’d go shopping!
6. Roseanne
“It’s okay to be fat. So you’re fat. Just be fat and shut up about it.” (Source)
I think growing up watching Roseanne saved my life at times.
This woman at the time was crazy, happy, playful, and had a husband and family and was living the life! She made life work for her and with her newest show out right now- I could only begin to imagine the hilarity that Roseanne and I could have and chat about. I MEAN THE STORIES and knowledge she could kick down?
Yeah… this would be a colorful ride!
7. Jill Scott
I love food. I’m not afraid of it. I can’t imagine starving myself and being happy; I’m too visceral. Life is to enjoy, and there’s nothing like having dessert after a good meal. I eat what I want to, but I have to make sure that I run, that I walk, that I take Tae Bo, that I’m physically active, or it doesn’t work.”(source)
SO there you have it! Seven plus size celebrities that I would love to chat with about the media, Hollywood, self confidence, and their own battles and/but ultimately go shopping with! The question is, who has connects? Hehe while this is a wish list, I am on a mission! J
Q. Which plus size celebrity would you want to interview or learn more from and why?
OMG I’d give my right pinky finger to meet Beth Ditto!! I love what a risk taker she is with both her music and her fashion. I hope you do get to interview these amazing women – those would be some legendary interviews!!
Girl who are you tellin! LOL One day, though!
Girl who are you tellin! LOL One day, though!
I’d love to interview Rosanne too! She said once that she was afraid to lose weight because it felt like then anyone could just come along and grab her up and cart her off against her will (something like that). You know, my Gma has said something similar (she’s a big girl too). She said if anyone ever tried to cart her off, she’d just sit her a$$ on the sidewalk and refuse to move and who’d be able to life her…I figure they could just get what they came for right on the sidewalk :/
Sheesh, this comment isn’t really turning out how I intended…
Anyway, as a big girl myself, I kinda get where they’re coming from. And I’d love to just meet Rosanne anyway. She’s a powerhouse. She has a new show now too, doesn’t she? Anyone know what it’s called? Not that I don’t have Google… 🙂
Something to the effect of Roseanne Gone nuts- or something like that? LOL
I understood your words love! LOL
Something to the effect of Roseanne Gone nuts- or something like that? LOL
I understood your words love! LOL
I don’t know about die to interview but I’d love to sit down for a tea with Adele.
Hehehehe! You know me and my interesting choice of words! LOL
I love Adele… her quote sums up how I feel about the industry and it’s manipulation to make EVERY woman skinny evil cows! lol Case in point… Jennifer Hudson! Musicians were blessed with the gift of song… they should just worry about preserving the voice not trying to fit into someone else’s imagine of beauty to sale records!
I could not agree more! Thanks for the two snaps!!!
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Hey Marie,
I think you should interview these people. I am a big believer in ‘I AM’ statements. Write down your I AM statement to interview these people. I AM interviewing Adele. I AM the go to interviewer of Women of size that make a difference.
I’ve been writing I AM statements and goals for the last 4 years and am seeing them come to fruition.
I would love to sit down and have a conversation with Adele _ I am a huge fan of her music. Marie Denee because your blog/website is the only one I faithfully look at and participate in. Oprah – she is one of the most interesting ladies I know, I love how she has diversified and would love to pick her brain about that.
!!! Gina!!!
OMG, your words made me pause. I love the I AM statements! Your kind words have really made me smile love! Thank you so much for being a reader and for sharing a piece of your mind! I really appreciate you !
I can definitely see you interviewing all of these Curvy Sexy women. I would love to speak with Oprah for even 30 minutes. That would be a dream for me.
I’m sure if you made up your mind to do so, you could interview these gorgeous ladies.
Go for it.
I would Like to Interview Amber Riley, QUEEN Latifah, Monique , Jill Scott , Adele . . . .(How about we just say all of the women above!)