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7 Petite Plus Fashion Rules to Break NOW

7 Petite Plus Size Rules to Break on The Curvy Fashionista

As a petite and curvy woman who has been interested in fashion all of my life, I’ve spent more than my fair share of time poring over fashion magazines.  If you’ve ever read a fashion magazine or even watched “What Not to Wear,” then you know that “rules” abound for creating the most flattering looks for different body types.  Generally, the word flattering is used as code to mean taller and thinner. So we talk 7 Petite Plus Fashion Rules to Break NOW!

Whether considered “plus” or not, I’ve always been more on the curvy side.  Certainly, I’ve always been petite.  I spent years dutifully trying to follow fashion rules, but somewhere over the years, I have realized just how limiting these rules are.  What’s more, I realized that if you are petite AND curvy/plus, the rules are often contradictory, providing even fewer “legal” clothing options.

If you’re a fashion lover, then the idea of wearing one type of skirt, hem length, jacket cut, etc. for the rest of your life is a positively dreadful notion.  So, while these “rules” are great as guidelines for flattering your beautiful physiques, they really should just be taken as suggestions and nothing more.  There are no real world fashion police coming to arrest you – so wear what you want!

Ultimately, great style and looking fabulous comes down to how you feel about yourself in your clothes.  Do your clothes make you walk taller and move with increased confidence?  If they do, then they are doing more than just their basic job of preserving modesty.

Rules built on absolutes and prejudice towards a certain ideal are begging to be broken!  So, with that, here’s what a little rule breaking looks like:

7 Petite Plus Fashion Rules to Break NOW

RULE 1:  Mini-skirts

7 Petite Plus Size Rules to Break

Well, a petite, plus girl can’t both avoid and wear mini-skirts, so wear what you want!  Love showing off those gorgeous gams?  Do it!!!

RULE 2:  Horizontal stripes

7 Petite Plus Size Rules to Break

Here’s my take on the “Avoid Horizontal Stripes” rule.  No one is ever going to mistake me for being tall, nor for being a waif.  Our bodies are what they are – own them.  As women, we’re often told me shouldn’t take up too much space (physically, culturally, politically, etc.).  Horizontal stripes send an unapologetic message.  We’re here – take notice!

RULE 3:  Head-to-toe Black

7 Petite Plus Size Rules to Break

We’ve probably all heard that black is slimming and that head-to-toe black is lengthening to the figure.  Now, don’t get me wrong – I love me some black, my favorite neutral by far, but too much black can simply be boring.  A rainbow-inspired palette projects confidence.  When you want to get noticed, color is definitely the way to go!

RULE 4:  Cropped/Ankle pants

7 Petite Plus Size Rules to Break

Cropped and ankle pants add variety to a pants collection.  If you like to let your ankles breathe or just enjoy the silhouette, then go for it!  Tapered or slim legs are almost just as flattering in the conventional sense as full-length pants but have a little less formality making them perfect for casual and evening looks.

RULE 5:  Oversized or voluminous clothing

7 Petite Plus Size Rules to Break

Yes, there was once a time (in the not too distant past) where plus-size fashion meant shopping at Muumuus R’ Us, but fashion rules have changed and now the general rule is that plus size women should avoid oversized or voluminous clothing.  Now, I’m not advocating muumuus (unless that’s what you’re in to), but playing with volume adds interest to a look, and petite plus-size girls need not be afraid of it.

RULE 6: Midi- and Maxi-length hemlines

7 Petite Plus Size Rules to Break

For years, I’ve heard that petites should avoid midi and maxi-length hems – that they make petites look even shorter.  Plus ladies are told to avoid midi and maxi-lengths and encouraged to show off one of their “best” assets by flaunting their calves.  So, if miniskirts are out and midi and maxi skirts are out, that essentially leaves petite plus girls the option of knee-length skirts.  Knee-length is great, but too much of a good thing can still get stale.  Besides, we can decide for ourselves what our best assets are!!!!

RULE 7:  Large prints, accessories, and handbags

7 Petite Plus Size Rules to Break

Another contradictory “rule”!  You could compromise and stay trapped in medium size everything (generally considered to be universally flattering), but where’s the fun in that?

Ultimately, what you wear should be your own decision – based off of what makes you feel great and not what you’ve been taught you should wear.  Fashion “rules” can be great guidelines, but one should never feel bound by them.  For petite curvy/plus gals, finding a great fit can be difficult enough – you should at least get to wear what you love!

 

What do you think?  Do you tow the style line or are you a fashion rebel?

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29 Comments

29 Comments

  1. Ashley ZionsMama Staples

    March 12, 2014 at 4:49 AM

    I love all your choices!:

    • Marie Denee

      March 12, 2014 at 7:04 AM

      She is too cute huh! I love her style too!

  2. Ieshia Starr-Trina Taylor

    March 12, 2014 at 4:53 AM

    I love your blog and style

    • Marie Denee

      March 12, 2014 at 7:04 AM

      LOL Mine or Cass’s??? Cass is quite cute!

      • Ieshia Starr-Trina Taylor

        March 12, 2014 at 7:12 AM

        Both Im loving the styles you guys display

  3. Johanna Jackson

    March 12, 2014 at 4:55 AM

    Great! I loved it all! I’m. Only 5″1 and followed a lot of those rules. Going to break some rules!

  4. Black Heart Creatives

    March 12, 2014 at 4:56 AM

    Those neon pointy shoes are utterly fab! We do have the opposite problem though, being plus size and over 6″1 tall! Very much enjoying your blog <3

  5. Whitney 'Nic' James

    March 12, 2014 at 7:14 AM

    You look great! I love the stripes and the tutu – so cute!

  6. Capricious Feline

    March 12, 2014 at 8:11 AM

    I’ve 5’6″, but my body type and short legs definitely reads on the shorter side. I’m an unabashed breaker of the maxi rule for both skirts and dresses!! Also, I think people with larger bodies look amazing wearing larger prints – there is more surface area to show off the fabulous!

  7. Ginny

    March 12, 2014 at 11:12 AM

    OMG, please be my personal shopper! I’m 5’2″ and a size 20. I absolutely adore everything you are wearing above. Be my style guru! LOL

    • Cassandra Westfall

      March 12, 2014 at 5:38 PM

      Thanks so much Ginny! 😀
      I’m in the St. Louis area. If you’re ever in the neighborhood…

  8. Amy Sandusky

    March 12, 2014 at 2:29 PM

    I’ve often pointed out to people (Mom!) that nobody is EVER going to mistake me for a tall girl, let alone a tall thin girl. I do bright, I do fitted (knowing how to sew comes in handy here) and gorgeous prints are always a go. Maxi dresses are my favorite spring/summer look. Now however, I must have the tutu I’ve wanted for so long. I’m inspired!

    • Marie Denee

      March 12, 2014 at 5:51 PM

      Right!!! She has me thinking twice about this trend too!

  9. cece

    March 12, 2014 at 8:06 PM

    i NNNEED that tutu

  10. Jill Firns

    March 12, 2014 at 9:14 PM

    Oh my gosh! #5’s tutu outfit is TO DIE FOR!!! Love it!

  11. Barbie Doll

    March 15, 2014 at 10:51 AM

    Where did you get that gorgeous blue moto jacket? I’ve been looking for one! Love your style! I’m 5’2″ and a size 20/22 and have a tough time getting garments with the right proportions for me. I often have things tailored. You look fabulous Dahling!!!

    • Cassandra Westfall

      March 24, 2014 at 7:15 PM

      Thank you Barbie Doll! The moto jacket is from The Limited. I’m an in-between size, usually 14-16 on top/ 12 on bottom, so I can wear both straight and plus sizes depending on the item. Like everything else though, this one was altered to fit!

  12. vatrask

    March 16, 2014 at 9:32 AM

    I am so glad t find more petite-plus girls out there. I find it so hard to find clothes I like that don’t require major amounts of custom tailoring. Now, of course I’m curious about all these outfits you showed us and where I can get my hands on them. Please share?

    • Cassandra Westfall

      March 24, 2014 at 7:14 PM

      I’ve worn all of these outfits on my blog, Style Cassentials. You can find details on all of these outfits and others over there! 🙂

  13. Tara Banks

    March 16, 2014 at 6:43 PM

    I need a Tutu in my life ASAP!!!

  14. Beebee

    March 18, 2014 at 3:29 PM

    I love you ladies,im so addicted to being sassy and beautiful and loving my curves to the fullest,i my problem is finding all the great looks along with a great price lol…Does anyone know where i can find a plus size corset?

    • Cassandra Westfall

      March 24, 2014 at 7:16 PM

      Frederick’s of Hollywood, Hips & Curves, and Bare Necessities all carry plus-size corsets!

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